Women often wonder what men really want in relationships. Well, guess what? Guys wonder the same thing about women. So, at DDHG, we're here to help our guy readers find out! 1. To be loved - every woman needs to feel loved by her man. She needs to know that her man truly loves her above anyone else. For women, a relationship is a serious commitment that should lead to lasting love. For a woman to continue to making that commitment, she's got to know that there's love there.